When people try you after you’ve made it clear what you are and aren’t about it becomes a test of superiority! It’s passive, subtle disrespect, if you are to give in and let people slide under all circumstances they seem to take that as “I’m more important to them than they are to themselves.” and begin to run amuck of your kindness since you’re willingly allowing discomfort. So I encourage everyone to put themselves first always and stay true who they are plus protect their integrity. We’re, as in each of us individually, all we got and anybody putting you in a position to take away or stress you is not to be confused as a symbolization of love but more so manipulation, and remember only you can feel you! So it’s up to you to respect and value yourself for you.